How can I support my family with affiliate marketing? That is what is on my mind today.
Sometimes working long hours will not achieve the job that you have set out to do. But it isn’t all hopeless, you can still take a course or receive new training which will make things better in a short amount of time.
Take me for instance, I was once uncertain of where my life was heading. I didn’t know how to get the money I felt was necessary to make things better.
For me, it was a severe depressive episode which got my mind to change how I was behaving. But, I didn’t do it by myself and that is the part that got me to think differently.
You see, a couple of years ago I was what many would call a death seeker. The point is to get you to imagine what that is like when your situation seems that bleak.
A way out of the misery is what I needed and my only option as it seemed was to do things that would stop the pain. Now, I was also a bit of a coward which meant I had to drink myself into a convinced state of mind.
This was a short term plan to not wake up at some point. But there were many mistakes I later learned I had made. For one, I had an enormous tolerance built up by the excessive drinking I had done up to this point.
That meant it would take me more than most to comatose from the drink. Instead of slowly passing out, I would basically black out and lose control of my own actions.
Once I was unconscious there was no way to enforce the plan I had made. Puking wouldn’t happen but the consumption of other nutrients would take place.
After that, all that would occur is a pass out wherever seemed convenient. Now, you may wonder how I know all of these things. Did I record myself only to watch what took place?
That would have been a decent way to go but I was told by others numerous times that my actions would get weird. That didn’t actually help me any because not only did I feel like I was trapped, I had to get through the embarrassment as well.
This meant there were new problems which stacked on top of old problems and that was the undoing of it all.
So, one day while drinking normally, I had the urge to throw up. This seemed odd but it sent me into a panic. My abdominal area had been experiencing on and off discomforts to say it pleasantly.
Fear took over which made me second guess everything that was going on in my life. I was merely in a state of confusion that was brought on by my emotions.
Later I learned that emotions are the way the mind communicates to us. It’s saying to change what you are doing because it won’t just let go of you as easily as you believe.
In a way, my mind was the thing that saved my life because it shot me full of pains. Nerve damage, discomforts, and complete misery were the signs that I was in denial about.
With the help of a hospital and a psychologist, one day after a few days of recovery and detox, I was completely ready to change everything.
Why is this important for you to hear about? How on earth will this brief story of my own struggles assist you?
Without any assistance, my problems seemed insurmountable. This happens to everyone when they feel trapped in their lives. They see many different solutions that are usually not that wonderful after all.
Knowing that I could start to put pieces back together and reclaim my life, I looked to obtain more knowledge. I wanted to know why I was destroying myself in a way that I see happen to other people.
This led me to want to study psychology and human nature. That eventually brought my attention to marketing because it also involves psychology.
When I found the platform where I learned about affiliate marketing. Things started to piece together. But these weren’t shouted out to me at first, they were hidden because I wasn’t capable of observing my own environment.
Those skills were added as I improved the information I was absorbing. One thing led to another and I was seeing solutions instead of problems.
Once my way of thinking was different I began to question who I was. Then, while working on a different project things started to click for me again.
Why do I fight so hard to insist on things being this tough? I needed something known as a purpose that wasn’t at all known. Continuously I looked to other sources for help on this matter.
Alone in my thinking that I was too different and too unique, was just one more belief I had learned that wasn’t even close to the truth.
For the sake of things getting to the point, I found out with some hard work what a passion was. Then I felt what was meant to realize what things meant.
From there it was only a matter of searching my soul to conclude that I needed to help other people who were struggling. But how do I do that when I myself get lost so easily?
Affiliate Marketing Will Help You And Your Family
Yes, I know, that took a long time to get to this moment. But I feel you needed to see things from a perspective different from your own.
Hopefully, you see how one personal problem led to solutions to all problems. If not then I need to rework my opening a little more for the future readers.
But, the point I so desperately want you to hear about is this: When you change your pursuit of things to what will help the most, you learn that all of your life has been leading up to this.
As a marketer, I learned that I held onto false beliefs because I expected things to happen when they weren’t promised. The only true promise that matters is when you are the one who can make it to yourself.
Everything else is just an obligation which means you don’t have to do anything unless it helps your one big goal. That enormous goal is what you need to have in order to become a person who achieves.
The connection here is that you influence your family in ways you haven’t likely noticed. They may mirror your actions and behaviors for no other reason than that it’s you doing those things.
So, if they see you struggle to make end’s meat for them, they will desire to do things differently. Well, that desire doesn’t typically translate into a better life because they just so happen to hold onto things which eventually take a toll.
To say that part another way is to realize that they will take a job similar to the one that you hate. They will go to work to earn money from a source they have no control over.
This is partly to do with what they had been taught. So, unless somebody along the way takes special notice of them, they will only duplicate the misery in their own lives that you experience in yours.
Do them the favor and start learning who you are meant to be. With the right changes, you will still have the time to achieve the greatest joy in your life.
You can cast aside all of those miserable obligations which keep you chained to your weekly routine. This is one of the most useful skill sets to learn because you become your own boss like we are all meant to be.
Overcome That Role You Are Obligated To Have
You weren’t born to be a lackluster provider or to be kept away from your own dreams. Along the way of living you simply allowed yourself to follow the obstacles rather than get passed them.
I fell victim to something just as most people do, the only difference between us is that I got to know where I wanted to truly go. I didn’t feel the need anymore to do things because of the needs of others.
Now don’t get me wrong, the change will happen if you desire it enough, but can you really just make one little change at a time to experience a big enough difference?
I didn’t use to think that way either, but then again I wasn’t really thinking about things that I wanted. Everything that was making me sick, was the result of what I was taught.
Once I became my own teacher I was able to experience the truth about life. One of the most important beliefs to have is the one where you love yourself first.
That doesn’t mean something silly or need to be something you are embarrassed about. It takes you to the questions that will get your mind to finally open up.
One such question is: Do I really do everything that I can to the best of my abilities? Does my family really benefit as much as they can from the work that I do?
Should I make a few changes to see that there is more to my life than the path that I am on? What do I truly want to develop into and can I accomplish new things, become a better person, and somehow change one person’s life for the better?
Couldn’t I change my own life to include more of the things that I love to do? Wouldn’t these changes make me a better example for my family and the way that they live their own lives?
All That Is Left To Do Is To Get Started
Do you think I ran around in circles for as long as I did for the sake of putting myself through torture? Or perhaps I just didn’t have the right mentor who could awaken me to what life is all about.
Everything you need to know is already at your fingertips, the problem is that there isn’t one simple way to gain access to it in the right order.
But, through my own endless searches, trials, failures, mistakes, and wisdom, I learned what living was supposed to be like.
The most thrilling life is the one that you don’t think is possible, that is until you see yourself enjoying it and know that it’s about to happen.
So, heed my advice and get to work on this new challenge I am about to put in front of you. Become willing to study marketing and more specifically affiliate marketing.
The reasons will become clear once you take that first few steps forward and learn what you can actually do with your skills.
I may still be in this journey but at least I am heading in the right direction. Instead of dealing with the pain and misery, I have been able to see what is going to be the most wonderful reason to stay alive.
Knowing all these things allows me to settle the question: how can I support my family with affiliate marketing? By becoming the leader I need to become so that I can get the most value from the things I work so hard to accomplish.
Don’t take yourself for granted and be certain to let me know below what you think about this article.